tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1668273774855563833.post2852312722662432229..comments2011-10-16T08:58:43.578-07:00Comments on Winter Baby: "In Praise of Telling Too Soon"Gingerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12743710291986424925noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1668273774855563833.post-18974723118463728492011-03-05T10:06:01.183-08:002011-03-05T10:06:01.183-08:00Ginger, you are an amazing writer! I've seen y...Ginger, you are an amazing writer! I've seen you around the bump, though I'm more of a lurker so I'm sure you don't know me. My name is Melissa. I've been catching up on your blog and this entry really hit me. We lost our first baby in Dec and had our 2nd BFP the day before you. And this time we decided to just feel free to tell people because we want them by our side no matter what happens.<br /><br />In any case, thanks so much for sharing your amazing story. You are a very strong woman!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08151371196990467056noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1668273774855563833.post-87506253978412336432010-10-06T09:45:33.170-07:002010-10-06T09:45:33.170-07:00i just wanted to say that i completely agree. we t...i just wanted to say that i completely agree. we told our parents within 1 week of finding out we were expecting. 2 days later i began to m/c. DH said that was why he wanted us to wait before telling anyone. but i disagreed. i told him that while it sucked, i was grateful that i had the support group. without the support group, it would have sucked even more. we will be a bit more cautious if we ever are blessed with another BFP, but it will not be a total secret either. i wanted our baby to know it was loved from the very moment everyone found out. i did not want our baby to pass in the night, with everyone being none the wiser. <3B.B.https://www.blogger.com/profile/03593804941819432054noreply@blogger.com